22 years
L got married last year and my gynecologist told me that my hymen wil never break so what can I do?
Aug 25, 2014
Some women can face this problem during early days of marriage due to fear, anxiety, structural causes etc.
Usually most of the times the problem is psychological.
So what you can do is:
_Apply analgesic like xylocaine jelly around and little inside the vagina before the act, which will help in decreasing the pain and also help in lubrication.
_As now you got a solution for pain, decrease your anxiety and prepare yourself mentally for the act which will have much impact.
-Better to spend some time with each other before intercourse which will help in decreasing the anxiety and in changing the atmosphere
IF the problem is severe and all methods are done and no response and the situation is the same then you can do a hymenotomy.
It is a minor medical procedure involving the surgical removal or opening of the hymen. It is often performed on patients with imperforate hymens or septate hymens, or other situations where the hymen is unusually thick or rigid. In the case of a female with a hymen without any opening, an opening may be created in order to facilitate menstruation.
In situations where the opening is extremely small or the band(s) of a septate hymen limit access to the vaginal opening, the individual may elect for hymenotomy to allow for comfortable sexual penetration of her vagina, or to relieve pain or discomfort
you can ask and check with your gynecologist if this is the last method to make .
Usually most of the times the problem is psychological.
So what you can do is:
_Apply analgesic like xylocaine jelly around and little inside the vagina before the act, which will help in decreasing the pain and also help in lubrication.
_As now you got a solution for pain, decrease your anxiety and prepare yourself mentally for the act which will have much impact.
-Better to spend some time with each other before intercourse which will help in decreasing the anxiety and in changing the atmosphere
IF the problem is severe and all methods are done and no response and the situation is the same then you can do a hymenotomy.
It is a minor medical procedure involving the surgical removal or opening of the hymen. It is often performed on patients with imperforate hymens or septate hymens, or other situations where the hymen is unusually thick or rigid. In the case of a female with a hymen without any opening, an opening may be created in order to facilitate menstruation.
In situations where the opening is extremely small or the band(s) of a septate hymen limit access to the vaginal opening, the individual may elect for hymenotomy to allow for comfortable sexual penetration of her vagina, or to relieve pain or discomfort
you can ask and check with your gynecologist if this is the last method to make .
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